Never giving up is a matter of mindset. When you tell yourself not to give up you need to be absolute. No matter what excuse you think of, it doesn’t matter.
It can sometimes feel as if your problems outweigh your reasons to keep going but in order to move forward, you have to look at the whole picture. Accepting your problems is a major accomplishment and you have it in you to do so; No matter who you are or what situations you find yourself in.
If you find yourself in a situation you feel as if you can’t overcome, being absolute when telling yourself to keep going can be an asset. Remember that most of the battle is mental and no one has more control over your mind than you yourself.
Being aware of your reasons for giving up are just as important as the reason or reasons to keep going. Facing your problems head on can play a vital rule. If you think about it, all these self helps books have one thing in common; it’s that you need to find a reason to keep going. Though this an important part of the equation it is only one piece of the puzzle.
Never be afraid to confront yourself on the things stacking up against you. No matter how many problems you have, understanding them is an important step in regaining your traction. Sort through them however you wish but always remember that you have in your control the most important option, to power yourself through them.
One important rule to remember is never fixate on any one problem. Think of it this way: never stare directly at a problem, look at it more at a peripheral point of view. Like when you are driving, you don’t just use your eyes to drive you also look at things out of the corner of your eye.
Keep your focus set on your goals and the obstacles off to the sides.